Cuddles Can Cure?

It is now scientifically proven: Mother's Kisses actually make owies better!

There was a study done that looked at preemies who were snuggled "kangaroo-hold" by their mothers and evaluated for pain compared to infants who were swaddled. The babies who were cuddled recovered more quickly from their pain.

There is really nothing better than gathering your child in your arms, enfolding them and pulling them close, feeling them settle in to your chest, and the peace it can bring. I remember when my oldest first put her arms around my neck and gave me a real hug. There was nothing more precious, or more powerful!

Although the infant gets lots of cuddles (how can you not while breast feeding?!), I have to keep reminding myself of these sweet moments with my older ones. With all the demand for my attention and my affection, I now know what my mom meant when she wished she could be like a mama cat: jump up, shake off all the kittens pawing her (literally!), and dash away to be alone! I have had a moment or two (or ten or ...) like that.

I have a nursing infant, a 2-year-old who needs more affection while she's setting out learning new adventures (i.e. potty-training), and a 5-year-old who needs reaffirmation that I still love her and think she's wonderful/smart/fun/sweet. And, of course, there's my husband who also needs to know how much I love him. And, although verbal expression is needed and appreciated, there's nothing that can replace a hug.

So, when I get the feeling for a mama-cat-dash, I have to remember the beauty and healing power of cuddles and how much peace, love, and comfort they bring- to both parties.
The next time your baby (be he/she a few months or a few decades) gets an "owie", don't forget to cuddle, and use that amazing power you have as a Mom: your healing touch.